LOVE CONQUERS ALL…
I remember being very young and full of so much love to
give, it is safe to say, I was a bundle of love itself. I remember going to
school very excited to share my lunch with others, there were some particular
children who constantly begged for it and I never hesitated to share with them,
I didn’t really like it and hardly ever ate it but I was happy because they
liked it and I was content with that. I would sit with the beggars that used to
be outside my school and share my food with them I was just about 5 or 6 years
old then, I was so happy doing it, it brought me great joy, but as I grew up
those feelings began to wane until I grew up shielding myself and totally avoiding
being vulnerable to anyone through love, maybe because as I grew I had
genuinely tried to love, but faced a lot of rejection and sometimes embarrassments
but all I wanted to do was genuinely share with others the river of love that
filled my heart.
As I came to know the Lord Jesus, slowly he began taking me
back on the journey of discovering who I really am, who he has called me to be
and accepting who I am in Christ Jesus, I am still on that journey. I believe
many people are like me, rewind to when you were a little child you had no care
in the world but just exhibited the character that God genuinely gave you, but overtime
with interactions with the world those qualities slowly began to ebb. Love is a
topic that I genuinely love because God made us to Love and to be loved by him.
There is no greater Love than this, than to lay down one’s
life for his friends John 15:13. The love that God has for his children is so
deep, it is so true, so real, so liquid, and so tangible, why would anyone want
to live life without really experiencing this kind of love that no man can give?
God is love and true, genuine love only comes from God. So what is true love?
There are 4 types of love
Eros; means
romantic love, this is the type of love that exists between two opposite sex,
like married couples.
Philia: is the
love you have for friends, acquaintances, or the people you choose to love, more
like brotherly affection.
Storge: almost
like philia, it is the type of love that parents have for their children,
brothers and sisters have for each other, it is love for family members
generally.
Agape: this is
the only type of love that is not a feeling like the rest, but an action. Agape
love is selfless love, it gives of itself and does not expect anything in
return. The agape love is unconditional and so it does not matter if the love
is reciprocated. Agape love is what is expected amongst Christians. Agape love
is what made Jesus leave his heavenly throne in heaven to be born in a manger
to be later crucified on the cross just to reconcile us to himself. Agape Love
can only be borne by the Holy Spirit. Satan and his cohorts do not have the
capacity to have agape love Col3: 19 men are called to show agape love to their
wives.
Love conquers Fear:
There is no fear in love. Fear has two opposites faith and love, faith only
works through love Gal 5:6. Fear keeps us from loving as we should and the way
God would like us to, I was afraid to love people the way I had when I was a
little girl because it meant being very vulnerable and I didn’t want to be so I
was protecting myself from getting hurt, I haven’t completely overcome
this but God is certainly helping me. A lot of us are just like that, the fear of
rejection keeps us from for example calling that friend or individual but love
will call anyway even if we know we may be rejected.
Love conquers self:
Love sees others as better than ourselves and love is not proud. A reasonable
love of self is God ordained you cannot really love someone else if you hate
yourself, after all God says we should love our neighbours as ourselves Mark
12; 31. Love does not love so that it can be loved back. 1 John 4: 8 whoever does not love does not
know God. We show God love when we lay down our lives for him and offer it as a
living sacrifice, by walking with him and obeying his every commandment.1 John 2:5, if
we truly love God we will automatically love our brethren it is impossible to
love God and hate the brethren John 13:34
1 Corinthians 12: 27-30 teaches about the body of Christ and
the various gifts available in the church I am particularly drawn to verse 31
where it states that earnestly desire the best gifts and went further to state
in my own words but you know what? let me show you a more excellent way, this
way is more excellent than all these gifts joined together, in fact if you have
all these gifts and you don’t have this excellent one I am going to show you,
you are just wasting your time.
He went further to state that even if I speak with tongues
of men and of angels without love I am nothing but a noisy gong, if you have
ever heard a clanging cymbal or a resounding gong you will understand the kind
of horrible noise it produces, even if our faith can move mountains the faith
is of no use, if we donate our entire life savings and even burn ourselves
alive without love we are only suffering in vain. The next chapter 1Corinthians
13; 1-13 Paul began to explain what real love is
Love suffers long:
to suffer long is to be patient, how patient are we with others, with people
who maybe don’t act like us or are not quite like us? Are we quick to judge
them? Or are we quick to give up on them? love is patient with people
recognising that no one is perfect.
Love is Kind; in
a world that is saturated with so much harshness, we have to be kind to one another,
friendly, full of compassion, willing to help always, tender towards one another,
considerate, gentle and warmly affectionate. I believe the world will be a much
better place if we had more kindness around.
Love does not envy:
love is not jealous of others, instead it genuinely rejoices in the success of others.
Love thinks of others more highly and better than itself and this makes it difficult
to be envious.
Love does not parade
itself; love does not always want to be seen doing a good deed so that
everyone can know, love does a lot of great things in secret.
Love is not puffed up:
love is not proud, it does not look down on others or think that it is better
than others, love acknowledges its weaknesses and is not confident in his own
strength but that of God.
Love does not behave
rudely: Love is polite, and courteous it does not undermine anyone because
of age or status but treats everyone with honor and respect.
Love does not seek
its own: Love is not selfish, it is selfless if gives of itself without
expecting anything in return, it does not love so that it can be loved back, it
is agape so it loves regardless of how the other person feels, says or does.
Love is not provoked:
love is slow to anger and not easily provoked, love does not let its emotions
control it, love is not moody or touchy, it doesn’t get irritated easily, there
is righteous anger which is when we are angry about the things that God gets
angry about, this does not give us access to be angry always but to recognise
that we can get angry for the right reasons and not sin and not let our anger
last till the next day Eph 4:26
Love thinks no evil:
Love does not think evil, that is why satan and demons do not have the capacity
to love because they are always thinking evil, love thinks no evil, even if an evil
thought comes it doesn’t perch there, it is shrugged off immediately.
Love does not rejoice
in iniquity but rejoices in the truth: It doesn’t not rejoice when people
do bad things, it doesn’t like injustice, it doesn’t like it when the poor are oppressed
and marginalised, it does not praise wrongdoing and does not associate with it,
it has a high level of integrity, it does not cheat people or tell lies.
Love bears all
things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things: love protects
and shields, it does not broadcast the weaknesses and sins of others and is not
quick to share other peoples offenses with everyone, 1 Peter 4: 8 love covers a
multitude of sin, love endures being maltreated, does not retaliate or is vengeful
but it endures all, loves believes the best in people and hopes for the best
for all mankind. Love really does conquer ALL…..
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